Change : All what you need to know.

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One thing that life taught me was "Nothing is Absolute" and "Change is necessary".

Then why do people poke me and ask why have I changed over time?
Wasn't change mandatory or they missed that lesson of life??

People come and go, and of course, the ones who stay, change over time.
And eventually you feel that it isn't right or the person shouldn't have changed, then let me clarify it for you that CHANGE IS NECESSARY OVER TIME.

So what became your issue with me!?
Did I get rude with you? Then you deserved it somewhere.
Did I ignore you? Then I don't feel comfortable with you.
Did I stop talking to you? Then I don't feel necessary talking to you.
Did I block you? Then I don't feel you should be an audience to my content.

Well, I know the issues are limitless and with each perspective, it would add more to the list.

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And coming to the point that what life would be like without any sort of change or evolution!?
Then my friends let the thing get into your mind that it would be boring as hell. No change means that the same set of people in your life throughout and no new friends. 
Without change, things would be extremely monotonous.
If old people won't leave, you would never be able to discover new people.
To an extent, this change is a major motivation for discovering oneself.
The change in and around you plays a major role in letting you discover yourself to a new perspective.

Change is necessary over time. 
Accept changes not matter whether you like it or not.
And note that the biggest compliment anyone could have given you is that 
"" Heyy, you changed a bit or rather a lot.""
Change for good.
Change for happiness.
Change without getting bothered by what the others will think or say.
It's you and the change is yours, no one has got the right to complain about it unnecessarily.
Your change should be good for you and that's exactly what matters the most.

Stay Happy.
Be Positive.

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