Sunshine: A Way of Life

"Wake up!! We have to leave soon!!", her mom said. Out of all the last night episode, she forgot about the family picnic and the long drive. She got ready and donned a sporty, chic look. looking hot enough to kill him. She was still thinking about to say yes or no!! He is nice enough, smart and basically understands her! She likes being him and enjoys his company. She left her phone at the home as she didn't want any message or call to interrupt the quality she was going to spend with her family! But, the thought of him!! She carried it in her heart!! While driving along the fields, she let the window of the car open. The air made its way through her loose hair and she closed her eyes and felt the air deeply! Lost deep in thoughts, all she thought of was about him!! As the day was sunny, the sunlight was nice and warm. She just wanted to be in the moment!! By the time the picnic came to an end she had decided her answer!! While she spent her whole day in...

The first handshake became memorable. They both now could feel that there is something more than friendship but surety was yet to come. They both slowly became each other's dispersal partners. Waiting for each other became a custom. Friends didn't ask any question now after they both have shut their mouths with a statement, "We are just good friends!!". Meeting each other became the most awaited part of the day. Her eyes became his favorite and his smile made her skip a heartbeat. In addition to "good night", "sweet dreams" and "take care" in the chats, "Love u" made a little space but this love u was only as a friend!! 648 hours (27 Days) passed and these two stupids continue being only friends. Well!! only she was the stupid. He had already fallen for her and she was waiting to be pushed in the well of love. After a usual chat, half past midnight, while ending the chat with "Goodnight", "Sweet ...

Every day in the school corridors, their eyes met and an involuntary smile came up. For they, it was just a friendly smile. They now texted each other every day. Chatting for hours on the phone, they couldn't manage to have a face-to-face conversation. Days passed by!! And it was now they both finally decided to meet. "Butterflies in Stomach" Both had the same feeling. As she reached the destination, she could see him waiting there for her, looking at her, a cute smile came on his face. They could see their friends passing by. Both of them knew that these friends are surely gonna fire them up with their questions. But who cares! The distant eye contact was now really close. He being really taller than she, had to look down at her, adoring her while she spoke. For him, she was cute and talkative and only a friend. But again!! Destiny !! Not everything you plan is correct, let the destiny play its tricks. The meeting continued for good 20 minutes until it was t...

It was a normal Christmas until "she" finally made it to her phone after completing all her work. Christmas wishes from friends and family, she replied to all the texts but it was still not the ending. While everyone was asleep, she was up, sleepless. Checking the Facebook feed. Little did she know that the last wish was still to come. He: Merry Christmas!! She looked at the message with amazement and paused before she replied. She: Same to you. But why this text?? We have hardly ever talked in school!! He: Just spreading happiness!! She: Well, in that case! Mission Accomplished!! (Well!! Destiny has a completed different mission to complete) And that's how the midnight conversation grew. And by the next morning, they both had a new friend. The talked about their hobbies, interests, likes, dislikes and what not. After all, her wittiness can never let a conversation boring. The exchange of messages continued till 2 a.m and came to an end, only when they r...

Hello Everyone!! It's time for me to introduce you all to "She". She is daddy's princess and a bundle of joy. She is the combination of beauty, madness, smartness, and maturity. A perfect person to share the secrets with and fall in love with. She loves to talk to people and hear their stories. Not only a good listener, she loves to speak and express her thoughts. Unlike "he", she is short-tempered but her anger vanishes within minutes. She never learned to betray people. Being nice to everyone often gets her into trouble. Though she bumped into him by coincident but now, feels a different sort of connection with him. Her friends and family are her lifelines. In her little, cute world which happens to revolve around a few people only,  "he"has a different sort of significance. Her sweetness wins everybody's heart and if someone happens to be rude to her, she would just ignore as she would never throw a stone in a puddle of mud...

Hello People!!  Hope u liked the previous post " The Farewell" where I gave you a little hint about "He" and "She". The favorite characters!! So, this one is the official introduction of "He"!! Basically, he is one year older than "she" and is almost 18 years old. ( His Birthday soon!!) He is smart and a bit shy when anyone meets him for the first time. He possesses a charming and appealing personality. His nature is just so polite and calm that proved to the perfect to handle the madness of "she". He learned to dance for quite a time and is really looks conscious. Always up with trends!! Not only this! he takes on full responsibility to be a perfect man for his lady "she". He chose to love her with all her imperfections and is quite protective towards her!! His favorite pass time includes hanging out with friends, watching movies and teasing her!! No wonder he makes a perfect boyfriend material...

Hello People!! How beautiful things were !! The perfect time to embrace, cherish and celebrate the past is the Farewell!! A beautiful meeting with tears and smile at the same time!! And here, today is all about the school farewell!! Though I still have a year for it and this one in for my seniors!! When I thought of giving a farewell to the 12thies, the thought excited me but, as the time is passing by and the days is approaching, I am feeling a sense of loss. Basically, this one is bit personal. The most beautiful endings have the most beautiful beginnings!! To be honest, I would miss a few, I won't see them in the school anymore. He is excited about his farewell, waiting to know who would be the Gentleman of the Evening. And, she. She is hoping for the time to just pause and let her live in these moments a bit more!! For she knows that they would be in touch and he loves her to the moon and back. But still, they won't see each other in the school corridors aga...

Hello People!! It was just a few days ago I had to travel alone from my school to home and when you alone, you are a girl, and in Delhi, Trust me u have to be damn alert!! Pick up a newspaper for a while go through it and trust me u would find at least 4-5 articles regarding crime against women. Rape, molestation, harassment, eve-teasing and what not!! We talk of freedom, we talk of gender equality, we talk of women safety and then all we do is just talk and discuss!! Is it really fine doing so, just talking and discussing? Why are we acting like statues just watching and letting that happen? Are we really so ignorant!? And with no surprise, all the girls reading this can't deny of not being eve teased once in their life. U live in a metropolitan and expect safety! haha!! seems funny! Girls!! Those guys are viruses!! They won't go that easily. Those guys would not be affected even if you are wearing a saree, a burkha, and even a school uniform. They have not...

I had a fight with him which happens a lot. We argue we yell, we don't talk then and this continues only till one of us says sorry. This sorry thing need not be direct, sometimes gestures are enough! We fight a lot, that is, every other day. But why am I with him even then is because we can't be without each other. Those late night chats and his moodiness are my favorite. Basically, I may not like all of him but I love all of him, after all, it keeps a balance. Too much sweet could be annoying! He doesn't say "Be mature or grow up", maybe because he is mature enough to handle me. He just says "Baby, try to understand" maybe because I am understanding enough. He isn't the one claiming to handle things only by him because he knows his girl is strong enough to handle some.  Wheater we are apart or together, what remains constant is love. When I asked him " How would U introduce me to ur mom and dad??" Calmly he said "Meet my li...

Hello People!! Every one of us receives gifts and undoubtedly they always remind us of someone special and a thousand memories!! You see that gift, pause a bit, and as for a cliche, you recall that person, those memories and of course the moments!! But are all gifts pleasant? Not exactly!! Some are painful, associated with some painful memories! And as per me, they make you emotionally weak as well. I happen to experience the same some time back. Broken inside, when I found the real reason for me being the way I was never, the first thing I did was to get rid of that gift! Trust me, it is somewhere necessary to get rid of some painful things. When the thought behind the gift doesn't exist anymore why should the gift even exist? There is no sort of hatred but just don't let anything make you feel weak especially emotionally. No one had got the right to make you feel miserable but only your thoughts. I had a really nice gift and to be honest, though I liked it bu...

Dearest You!! Thanks for being there each time I stumbled while those high heels didn't cooperate well. Thanks for being there as constant support when I have broken apart or just had a really bad day. Who would need a boyfriend/girlfriend when they had a bunch of purely awesome people like you all?? All those mood swings were tolerated! I know! After all who would like to hear all that rubbish or allowed me to throw all those tantrums!? While everyone got busy in their life, you remained there for me. While we were kilometers apart, u were always a call away!! or sometimes a message away! There sooo much to say but words can't express everything you know na!! I owe you people soo much, all those waves of laughter, hugs and moments! Those moments in the playground or the ones in the corridor and not to forget the ones during classes! More or less, it's just one year left that we would meet every day and create memories! Time passes by and we would hardly f...

Hello Pretty People!! La vie is the French word for "Life" I happen to visit a cancer hospital today and to be honest, I happen to forget all my misery after seeing that of the patients. I was sitting in the waiting area when a young girl about 9-year-old passed by me sitting in a wheelchair and the nurse pushing the wheelchair. Her wheelchair stopped at the reception and the nurse got busy with some documents. We both looked at each other pretending we didn't. I don't know what she thought but I was completely lost in my own thoughts about how life could be so unfair, about how she might be feeling, about how short life could and about the fact that life is so unpredictable. I was feeling broken inside for no reason for a past few days and today when I faced the reality of life, I feel no reason to cry upon my life however tangled it be. Every problem in one's life seems a giant until u realize what worse is happening with others. Be happy because u ...

Hello People!! I got many topics to write on the feedback form!! They were mainly about love!!  And couldn't write about love because that's isn't something which can be expressed in few words. Rather the definition of love is completely different for every individual and for me, it is just a person who likes me the way I am without a change, one who would support me and care for me, would give space but would never let me feel lonely. Someone with whom I can share my madness and would understand everything looking into my eyes. I know this expectation of mine so filmy and non-realistic but love isn't about being practical always but is being transferred to a completely different world when I am with him. piece If life is a piece of cake, I would prefer a mixed fruit cake rather than a chocolate one. Being same all the time isn't fun. The different fruits tasting different would be better than the same chocolate all the time!! Remember before you love som...

Hello Friends!! You must have felt a bit jealous at some point in our life!! A feeling comes naturally and we have no control over them most of the times.Life is too short to regret a thing and is so stupid to be jealous!! This post is totally what's on my mind and once a mentor of mine said that your blog is your best friend when you have to speak your heart out!! Sometimes, this jealousy is a must, to know what your heart wants and what is the hidden feeling which is yet to be discovered by you. "Why is he talking to her!?" "Who is that girl he is sitting with??" "Is he dating her??" And a hundred more which can't be mentioned here!! To be honest, this jealousy thing is completely natural and is important too. Well, one of my friends once said it to me that Jealousy is an essential part of a relationship be it be friends or more than that! I agree with him and find it quite ironical writing this as I really feel jealous of any girl t...

Hello people!! Self Respect, Self Esteem, Personal Dignity One of the most important element in everybody's life. While some people risk their jobs and career for the sake of their dignity. There are some losing it for the sake of holding onto someone in their life, or just for the sake of showing people that things are working perfectly. Friends!! Though I wanted to write on this topic from quite a time. There was always something or other which kept holding me back! Summing up all your thoughts and writing them for the people to read is quite a difficult task but when I have an audience of such wonderful readers I love to do such difficult tasks. Self Respect : It defines you and your standards. "Don't hold onto things/people when they cost your self-esteem"                                                             ...

Hello friends! Hope u had an awesome and memorable Diwali. I had a blast in this festive season though. It was today my best friend asked me whether I will be in touch with her even after the school ends, even after we will not meet daily in the same uniforms, share the same bench and talk endlessly. It was then I realized that not even two years are left for my high school to end. And we all, that is, I and my friends will go on to our own paths to continue on our further studies and career. We would no longer be able to meet every day and surely will get busy in our life. And it is quite obvious and natural but why not live this remaining time to the fullest! Most of the adults when asked to describe the golden period of their life they say  ""The School Days"". School: A place we join crying and leave with teary eyes.  Infinite memories and some stupid friends make the school life way more memorable. All those who have completed their school life ...

Hello everyone!! Sorry for this late post. I had nothing in my mind while I was writing this post, to be honest life happened to me and happen to change a lot of things and I discovered that opening up things is a perfect way to sort things simply and easily, even if you want to end something spill the beans and end that bond without any grudges. But when it's about ending things make sure you don't cry over the past after you end things. The most prominent question when you think of ending up the relationship is that Will I be able to move on? Will I be able to start with a new beginning? Will it be okay to be friends with that person? and the most dangerous one!! " How to move on?! " Well, friends. If you really wish to move on, take a break on them, that means don't see them, meet them and talk to them for a time being. Moreover, it is totally okay to block them on social networking sites where you happen to see their posts and pictures m...

Hello, Everyone!! Here I am back with one more post and a new topic. TOXIC RELATIONSHIPS All of us are surrounded with people, different type of people, some are strangers other are familiar and few are special. And the special ones are either your family, your best friend or your partner/better half. It's not always necessary that the person you are in a relationship with is your better half. Being someone's better half involves a deep understanding, a unique connection with your partner and most importantly trust. It's been quite long that I had decided to write on this topic. My motive for writing this post is to make people have a second thought about the person they are spending time on. In this world of busy people and everyone being busy in their work, people tend to find temporary pleasures. It is quite obvious as from the point of human nature. But seeking temporary pleasures is harmful. Your partner is nice to you but suddenly, without any reason tur...

Hello Everyone!! This part of "Love Your Body" is for all the cute and chubby curvy girls. You are most probably sick of hearing comments from almost everyone you talk to. People love to point out your tummy and ask you to exercise and eat less. Well, let their shitty advice go to hell and you be unaffected because you got lot more extra things than curves. Pros of being curvy : You are cute with your chubby cheeks which people just love to play with. Your bones don't hurt rather your shoulders are the most comfortable cushions. You relive your childhood almost everytime someone pulls your cheeks. You are everyone's shoulder to cry upon.  You don't need to put more efforts to find the correct outfit. You look awesome in most of the styles. You look exceptionally well in ethnic. You can easily flaunt your curves in ethnic wear. You are the most interesting person of the gang, the chubby buddy <3  Unlike the skinny people, you can pick heavy obj...

Hello Everyone I'm back with a new post especially for the ones who have ever come across the title of SKINNY . So, this post is a continuation of my previous post "Love Your Body" and this part is for the sexy skinnies. Although I'm not a skinny and writing for the ones whom I can not relate to is quite tough and so I had to talk to some of my friends and cousins about this to actually complete this post. So, as in the previous post, I stated that the very first step for loving your body is to get rid of negative thoughts and find the plus points. And to no surprise, you have so much to flaunt and shut everyone's mouth 'cause sometimes words aren't needed. So, the rest of the post would not have been possible without my cousin who is my savior whatever the situation is. And here are the PROS of being skinny... You can wear anything you feel like for any occasion. Hugs to you are really convenient as people's arm easily get around ur body....

Hello, all the people out there, In this world of body shaming, some people might not be much affected by what people are saying, there are some who take these comments so on heart that it disturbs them mentally as well as emotionally. Though this may act as a negative motivation to lose some weight it is really important to get rid of any negative thought you have for your own body.  Loving your body is not loving your unhealthy or unfit body but refers to as putting efforts to make your body healthy and fit. There are some way too easy ways to love your body and feel fitter than before. First of all, get rid of all the negative thoughts about your body. Second, find the fine points of your body rather than pointing and crying over your flaws.  Third, put in efforts to make you and your body feel better. Not to worry! I would write about these ways in the next posts accordingly. This could be a bit difficult but once your goals are clear you will certainly star...

I am Ira and I live in Delhi. I am a student and a baby when it comes to blogging. Hope you would like my writings. I would try my best to come up with new things every time. I started to draft my first blog when the two people in my life said a "YES" to my thought of writing. I am a positive person and love to explore people, their stories and their way of life. You are free to express your views and opinions upon the blogs. I would love to hear from my very audience.  Being a Delhiite, I have that expected attitude and personality. I m bold as the people say, hot as fire and cold as ice. I m the reflection of your attitude. Got attitude?? Then flaunt it. For all the girls out there, I hope my articles would help you and you would like them. Looking forward to a beautiful audience. You can write to me at "  irapandey43@gmail.com  ". And also follow my Instagram page "  imperfect_ira  ".