Moving on..
Hello everyone!!
But when it's about ending things make sure you don't cry over the past after you end things.
The most prominent question when you think of ending up the relationship is that
and the most dangerous one!!
" How to move on?! "
Well, friends.
If you really wish to move on, take a break on them, that means don't see them, meet them and talk to them for a time being. Moreover, it is totally okay to block them on social networking sites where you happen to see their posts and pictures majority of the times. Let the feelings and the thought of them fade away with time.
If you are in the same school, college or share the same workplace, take an off. It's just to make your mind settle for the final decision and accept the changes.
Don't let things make you remind of that person. Usually, the gifts by that person happen to haunt you and make you remind of the past.
Returning them is not at all the good idea. All this will create grudges and a feeling of guilt and there is no space of guilt because it's none of your mistake of what happened rather it was the circumstances which made it happen. Rather pack those gifts in a bag and keep them aside because feelings once were pure.
Talk to people and make new friends. Talk about what's on your mind to people with whom you feel comfortable and open your heart to them. Don't be shy to share things because it's good to share your thoughts rather you feel relaxed.
Socialise and party. Well, I know we party when we are happy and breaking up isn't a thing to celebrate but being in a company of cheerful people helps you feel cheerful as well. Also, don't prefer to sit alone or idle if you are in no mood for partying. Read a book, hang out with your bestie at your place or her/his. Talk about stupid things. listen to music or watch a movie together. Do things which make you feel happy but don't just let your brain think of that person.
Choose books and music very carefully because literature and music leaves a great impression on your mind and can make your whole day perfect or rather just ruin it. Skip on romantic books and sad music. Read books from the genre like mystery, horror, suspense, comic or you can even go on for beautiful literature works by your favorite writer. Listen to music which makes you feel happy, sing along like no one is listening to you and dance like no one is watching.
Find a hobby and trust me this is really interesting to do as you do a lot of new things and when you realize what really makes you happy you can continue to do it in your spare time and keep enjoying this routine.
Give time to you. Breaking up with someone comes with really big looking challenges which are quite easy to tackle. Spend some time and money in the salon, get a makeover or just a simple haircut can help you look different, the motive is to see the new you the next time you see the mirror.
These are some of my ways, and hope helps you too.
If you have some other way to move on in life, leave it in the comment section below.
Till the next post,
Stay Happy!!
Stay Safe!!
And a Happy Diwali in advance!!
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Sorry for this late post. I had nothing in my mind while I was writing this post, to be honest life happened to me and happen to change a lot of things and I discovered that opening up things is a perfect way to sort things simply and easily, even if you want to end something spill the beans and end that bond without any grudges.
But when it's about ending things make sure you don't cry over the past after you end things.
The most prominent question when you think of ending up the relationship is that
- Will I be able to move on?
- Will I be able to start with a new beginning?
- Will it be okay to be friends with that person?
and the most dangerous one!!
" How to move on?! "
Well, friends.
If you really wish to move on, take a break on them, that means don't see them, meet them and talk to them for a time being. Moreover, it is totally okay to block them on social networking sites where you happen to see their posts and pictures majority of the times. Let the feelings and the thought of them fade away with time.
If you are in the same school, college or share the same workplace, take an off. It's just to make your mind settle for the final decision and accept the changes.
Don't let things make you remind of that person. Usually, the gifts by that person happen to haunt you and make you remind of the past.
Returning them is not at all the good idea. All this will create grudges and a feeling of guilt and there is no space of guilt because it's none of your mistake of what happened rather it was the circumstances which made it happen. Rather pack those gifts in a bag and keep them aside because feelings once were pure.
Talk to people and make new friends. Talk about what's on your mind to people with whom you feel comfortable and open your heart to them. Don't be shy to share things because it's good to share your thoughts rather you feel relaxed.
Socialise and party. Well, I know we party when we are happy and breaking up isn't a thing to celebrate but being in a company of cheerful people helps you feel cheerful as well. Also, don't prefer to sit alone or idle if you are in no mood for partying. Read a book, hang out with your bestie at your place or her/his. Talk about stupid things. listen to music or watch a movie together. Do things which make you feel happy but don't just let your brain think of that person.
Choose books and music very carefully because literature and music leaves a great impression on your mind and can make your whole day perfect or rather just ruin it. Skip on romantic books and sad music. Read books from the genre like mystery, horror, suspense, comic or you can even go on for beautiful literature works by your favorite writer. Listen to music which makes you feel happy, sing along like no one is listening to you and dance like no one is watching.
Find a hobby and trust me this is really interesting to do as you do a lot of new things and when you realize what really makes you happy you can continue to do it in your spare time and keep enjoying this routine.
Give time to you. Breaking up with someone comes with really big looking challenges which are quite easy to tackle. Spend some time and money in the salon, get a makeover or just a simple haircut can help you look different, the motive is to see the new you the next time you see the mirror.
These are some of my ways, and hope helps you too.
If you have some other way to move on in life, leave it in the comment section below.
Till the next post,
Stay Happy!!
Stay Safe!!
And a Happy Diwali in advance!!
You can get post notifications in your mailbox if you subscribe and follow. You can find the option in the left-hand side menu.
You can write to me at irapandey43@gmail.com
And follow my Instagram page: imperfect_ira
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